In the spring of 2023, one of our closest family friends, Dave, began to feel a strange sensation in his left hand. At first, it was just a minor discomfort, but soon it became clear something was wrong. Tragically, he was diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease—a progressive and incurable illness. My parents had been close friends with Dave and his wife, Victory, for over twenty years, raising my siblings and me alongside their kids. Dave’s family weren't just friends to us; they were like a second family. Together, we shared road trips, church gatherings, countless meals, and joyful memories that bound us together.
 
After hearing the news of his diagnosis, we started a new tradition: Sunday Supper. Every Sunday, our family and another family would go to their house, spending the afternoon and evening together playing games like Fishbowl and Cooperation. Dinner was different almost every time. Sometimes the Dads would cook a big steak and go all out, or we would have a simple takeout pizza. It just depended on what we felt like that night. Through this simple ritual, we poured our love and time into each other, savoring every moment as Dave’s illness progressed. Dave passed in June 2024.

Losing someone we love is one of the most painful experiences any of us can endure. It’s a unique kind of grief when you lose someone who has deeply impacted your life and been a role model to so many. Yet, even in our sorrow, God’s presence shines through the people around us—friends, family, and those who care. He brings us together, gently reminding us that we don’t have to grieve alone.

During this time of sorrow, God brought us closer together, offering comfort and strength through our friendships. His love was reflected in every meal shared, every late-night conversation, and every quiet moment of simply sitting together in silence. Our friendships became a source of support, reminding us that no one had to walk through this pain alone.
 
Watching my best friend, Violet, Dave’s daughter, go through such a hard time was especially difficult. I wanted to be there for her every step of the way, ensuring she never felt alone. In those moments, I felt God’s presence most deeply, showing me how caring and being present makes a big difference in someone’s life. Everything that happened strengthened my relationship with God, reminding me that I can trust Him. Even in the midst of pain and struggle, He provides comfort and stability through the people around us.

I’m sure that many of you reading this have encountered a similar experience in your own lives. I hope that, through my story, you might find comfort in knowing that even in the darkest moments, God is with you, and the people around you are too. You don’t have to face hard times alone.